Time for a Nursing Home? Your Guide to Assisted Senior Living

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When you evaluate nursing home and assisted living facilities, consider resident happiness and social activities.

Maybe your mom’s having trouble remembering to take her medicine. Or your dad’s doctor told him not to drive anymore. Realizing that it’s time for a nursing home or assisted living can be overwhelming, between sharing your concerns with your loved one, researching different options and figuring out how to pay for it.

Seki Balogun, MD, is a geriatrician at University Physicians JABA in Charlottesville. She helps families work through these difficult decisions and answered some common questions about elderly healthcare.

Signs It May Be Time for a Nursing Home

Balogun says difficulty performing everyday activities is a warning sign. Doctors call these the activities of daily living (ADLs), and they include:

What’s a Geriatrician?

Geriatricians are primary care doctors who focus on older adults. Find a geriatrician in Charlottesville.

  • Bathing and otherwise maintaining good hygiene
  • Using the bathroom
  • Walking and getting around without falling
  • Food preparation and good nutrition
  • Driving
  • Shopping
  • Managing finances

On top of that, increasing memory loss can create health risks and dangers, such as forgetting to take medicine or turn off the stove.

In-Home Care: A Nursing Home/Assisted Living Alternatives

These challenges don’t always mean it’s time for a nursing home or an assisted senior living facility, though.

“If your loved one has difficult getting in and out of the bathtub or shower or has recurrent falls, the geriatrician will usually recommend a home physical and occupational therapy consultation to perform a home and fall assessment,” Balogun says.

Nursing home alternatives include:

  • Home modifications, such as shower stools and grab bars
  • Physical therapy to improve mobility
  • In-home care
  • Adult daycare and other day programs

Home healthcare providers can come several days a week, give medications and help with bathing, food preparation and other activities.

Adult Daycare

Adult daycare, where adults spend time at another facility but go home at night, offers more social interaction. But your loved one may need transportation to and from the facility and, possibly, more help at night from family or a paid aid.

Balogun points out that both adult daycare and home healthcare can be expensive, because they’re often not covered by medical insurance.

PACE

Another alternative: In Charlottesville, you can also consider Blue Ridge PACE (Program of All-Inclusive Care for the Elderly). Like adult daycare, people who are part of Blue Ridge PACE spend several hours a day outside of their homes. However, they can see a doctor and other health specialists, such as physical and occupational therapists and social workers, at the facility or get access to home healthcare. You must be eligible for Medicare (federal health insurance for people ages 65 and up or with certain conditions) or Medicaid (health insurance for low-income people) and meet other criteria to participate.

When More Care is Needed

But what if your loved one is still struggling at home, or you think she shouldn’t ever be alone? If she’s capable of making decisions, then you need to have “a candid discussion about the difficulties that you have noticed and the potential for harm,” Balogun says.

She adds that your loved one’s geriatrician can help with these difficult conversations. The doctor will likely be familiar with the long-term facilities in your community and can recommend ones that will provide the appropriate level of care.

Charlottesville Elder Care Resources

Always involve a geriatrician in conversations about your loved one’s care. Other local resources include:

Questions about paying? Learn more about Medicare, Medicaid and long-term care insurance.

Choosing a Nursing Home or Assisted Living Facility

What’s the Difference?

“Residents of assisted living facilities tend to have mild cognitive and/or functional issues,” Balogun says, though she adds they sometimes have a unit for residents with advanced dementia who can still walk or use a wheelchair.

As such, assisted living facilities typically provide meals and social activities. They help with activities of daily living, such as bathing and taking medications.

Nursing homes, on the other hand, are for people who are frail and usually need a wheelchair or walker to get around. Residents also need more help with nutrition, eating and toileting.

How Do You Pay for Long-Term Care?

“Finances are a big factor in considering long-term care options,” Balogun says. In Charlottesville, a year in assisted living costs averages about $56,000, according to AARP’s long-term care calculator. A nursing home will run between $75,000 – $85,000.

Health insurance and Medicare don’t typically cover long-term care in these facilities or through home health aides. Instead, people may pay through one of several ways:

  • Long-term care insurance, optional insurance that you purchase before you need it. This insurance reimburses policyholders for up to a certain amount per day.
  • Out-of-pocket, through savings and other personal assets. Used if you don’t have long-term care insurance or you’ve exhausted how much your policy will pay.
  • Medicaid, which is only for individuals with low incomes. People who need long-term care become eligible for Medicaid after they run out of money and other assets.

Additionally, “many facilities admit a limited number of residents with Medicaid status,” Balogun says. “Some don’t accept it at all.”

Nursing Home Safety and Social Factors

Balogun recommends visiting several facilities. Talk with the staff and, if possible, residents.

Consider:

  • Do the residents look happy or unhappy and bored?
  • Are they doing different activities or just sitting around?
  • What’s the staff-to-resident ratio? Are there enough employees?

The Center for Medicare and Medicaid Services (CMS) conducts periodic site visits to all CMS-certified facilities. Compare safety data between different facilities.

Comments (1)

  1. edward says:

    This is a helpful and interesting article. Thank you. Many – perhaps most – Americans wrongly believe that Medicare includes coverage for long term care needs, with home care, assisted living, and nursing home care. Increasingly we are learning the truth and perhaps especially those of us who have cared for family members, and friends, through their transition of aging, disability, and declining health unto death. Our family has cared for numerous relatives in this way, from declining health, to disability, and unto death. We were glad to help! But each day we helped others It has been very sad for our family to know that UVA’s discrimination against lesbian and gay employees – by offering unequal benefits – has left us vulnerable in our old age, disability and dying. Because UVA discriminated against our lesbian/gay family we were not able to acquire long term care insurance years ago that would have helped us be safer and more secure as old people, as we weaken and sicken, and die. And because of a other workplace discrimination with depressed wages we will have a much lower retirement ‘fixed income’ that makes it likely that we cannot afford a very good supplemental health insurance to Medicare. Thanks for publishing info about PACE. That seems truly a great program! We wish that we could live in this area but we do not own a home – never being able to afford to buy one , with depressed wages – and with low fixed income in retirement it seems impossible to consider owning or renting in the area. We are looking at moving to some lower case state. Without long term friends, and nearby family, we expect to be vulnerable to the poor quality and pervasive abuse and neglect that happens in low-case nursing home care and assisted living. We plan to keep the local or state abuse hotline numbers handy! Wouldn’t you?! So, as we grow old, sicken and die, in a strange state without lifelong friends, without long term care insurance and without adequate health insurance and with low fixed incomes we will surely remember UVA. Oh, btw, we fully expect UVA to continue its discrimination by failing to publish our comment. But that would obviously be yet more discrimination wouldn’t it …. failing to protect our point of view as lesbian/gay persons, as older persons, and as persons with diverse cultural experiences.

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